How to Know when he is cheating on me

Ladies, many times we are too busy taking care of ourselves, our families, our homes and our relationships; and rarely do we have the time to sit back and question what the hell is my lover doing? Well for some of us this is a GREAT THING! Not having to question your lover shows Love, Faith and most importantly Trust. It's a wonderful thing but unfortunately some of us are staring at the clock wondering if what he's telling us now coordinates with what he has told us just hours before. (MEN WILL ONLY DO WHAT YOU ALLOW) So be sure that you manage this carefully from start to finish. All men have patterns just like women; as we know a pattern is a combination of qualities, acts or tendencies forming a consistency or characteristic arrangement. When our relationships begin, the reason we do not question our men is because they're following a certain pattern consistently and it doesn't change so we know where he is and it isn't a problem. However if the pattern changes a dedicated man would inform you without you having to ask. A cheating man will continue to let you believe the established pattern which is easier for him to do what he wants without you questioning his whereabouts. Lets check out some steps to knowing if he is cheating on you:

Difficulty: Challenging

Instructions

1. If your man has broken his pattern and you're seeing that it has been changed for sometime now without him including you; there maybe someone else.

2. If your man starts receiving an obscene amount of phone calls but refuse to answer them in front of you; there maybe someone else.

3. Is your man always working late but has a nine to five at a bank; go figures there maybe someone else.

4. He doesn't want to do what he used to do with you anymore.

5. If he starts whispering or leaving the room while on his cell phone

6. He pays you little to no attention/affection/interest like he used too

7. He accuses you of cheating all of a sudden

8. He's overly protective of his cell phone/pager/blackberry and turns them off when he's home

Tips & Warnings

• These are all just clues or hints and not meant to be used against good, honest and faithful men just cause.