How to Online Date - Tips For Writing A Seductive First Email
The first email means everything in online dating. It creates the first impression the other person has of you and will help him decide if he wants to pursue a connection with you. You want to be seductive enough to get a response, land a date and hopefully develop a relationship. Once you've mastered the art of writing a seductive first email, all that's left is to maintain the other person's interest once you meet in person.
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Instructions
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Elaborate on points you found in the person's profile that resonated with you. For example, if someone said he likes traveling, respond with an overview of some of the more exotic places you've traveled if you also like to explore the world.
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Be specific and ask questions in your email to elicit a response. For example, if you talk about visiting Japan, highlight an experience that makes you appear adventurous and confident. Confidence is key to seduction. Then ask if the person you're writing to has been to Japan.
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Avoid divulging too much personal information. Save the juiciest tidbits for later dates. Seduction is all about leaving the other person wanting more, and making them come after you.
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Keep the email short, no longer than a few paragraphs. The entire purpose of the first email is to pique the other person's interest and score a date. Give the other person enough information so he wants to know more, but not so much that he knows your entire life story before the first date.
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Stay honest. Lying about your age or occupation will only come back to haunt you later. Your best bet at finding love is to remain truthful so you find someone suited to your personality.
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Tips & Warnings
Ask for a phone conversation after emailing back and forth a few times. Keep the romance moving so it develops into something more.
There's a fine line between being seductive and being suggestive. Unless you're looking only for a physical relationship, be sure not to cross that line in an initial email.
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bluewaterpalm
Apr 21, 2008
And lovin' it!! Awesome Dylan!! It'd be interesting for me to see if you could 'read between the lines' on my profile.....hehe :o)
