How to Stop Feeling Rejected – Teen Help

By Christina Sponias

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You cannot change your physical characteristics, but you can change your psychic world, so that you will become spiritually very beautiful. Your beauty will be really unique! You will be wise! Wisdom is much better than physical beauty.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

  • Interpret your dreams
  • Start being creative
Step1
If you don’t have a girlfriend or boyfriend while everybody else has one, if you don’t have a group of friends, if you think you are ugly and you feel nobody likes you, etc., you need some guidance to overcome your depression for feeling rejected.

After overcoming your depression, you will acquire real friends and feel loved and admired by them, besides finding the girlfriend or boyfriend you need.

You only need to change your behaviour. Dream interpretation can teach you exactly how to develop all your capacities and be balanced, strong and happy.
Step2
Start thinking positively. I know that it seems far from reality; you cannot think positive after so many negative experiences and feelings… However, start believing that everything will be better because your faith will help you attract only good things. If you are sad and think that things will never change for you, nothing good can really happen.

I know you are waiting for something good from outside, so that you may start feeling good from within, but things cannot happen this way. You have to believe that something good can happen to you; otherwise, you will emanate negative vibes that will make things worse.
Step3
On the other hand, only because you are reading this article right now you have really found something good in your path! I’m going to help you feel better and have the courage to continue.

First of all, if you are ugly, you are not the only one. No, I’m not going to tell you that your beauty is unique, that you have to accept and love yourself, etc., because you know all this stuff.
Step4
Just think objectively and conclude, “There are more people in this world like me. I’m not the only ugly one.” Now, perhaps you can find many ugly people that may like you as you look like them and they can be your friends. One of them can be your love…

You can find your group: people who look like you and those who have the same preferences.
Step5
Now, you have to become beautiful because you don’t want to feel ugly. You cannot change your physical characteristics, but you can change your psychic world, so that you will become spiritually very beautiful. Your beauty will be really unique! You will be wise! Wisdom is much better than physical beauty.

You will have many admirers who will like you the way you are, only because your spirit is beautiful, even though your face and body are not as beautiful as you wish they were.

This point will be totally irrelevant.

You will be a very pleasant friend. Pleasant people are welcome everywhere! You will be the one who always encourages others, always forgives, always understands everyone’s problems—a super friend who never complains about anything but only thinks about the solutions for each problem.
Step6
You will be mature!

Start being wise and follow my guidance: from now on, expect only the best. Look for people like you, who will never reject you and with whom you won’t feel inferior. And most importantly, always be nice! Be an angel, be the super-friend I described.

Don’t be afraid to become a victim of those who want to take advantage of your goodness. Show them that your goodness is so real that you understand they are taking advantage of it but you insist on being good because this is the way you always are!
Step7
You will find several new concepts and ways to face reality that will give you courage and inspiration. There are many things that can help you feel better and always feel strong!

You can have your own style, a style that will make you beautiful even though your facial characteristics are not so nice.
Step8
And, as you grow up, your face and body will change a lot! You may feel ugly now that you are a teen, but when you will be an adult, your features will change a lot. You may look very good then!
Step9
Don’t care so much for your appearance. Find people who like you and stop thinking about this matter. You have other things more important to think about in your life and a lot more to learn!

This is another advantage you can have: knowledge. You can read and learn things that common people ignore…

There are many solutions for you! So, stop being depressed and start being creative!

Tips & Warnings

  • Start thinking positively.
  • If you are sad and think that things will never change for you, nothing good can really happen.
  • I know that it seems far from reality; you cannot think positive after so many negative experiences and feelings… However, start believing that everything will be better because your faith will help you attract only good things.

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