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Step 1
Yahoo Personals and Match.com are the largest online dating sites with the most members. Consider joining one of these online communities.
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Step 2
If you have a particular interest in something such as a certain religion or ethnicity, or you're looking for other pet owners or people without children, there is a niche online dating service for you. For example, for environmentally conscious folks, there's Green Singles.
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Step 3
Once you've found a dating service you like, use an attention-grabbing headline and write an upbeat, positive profile. Make it stand out by writing interesting things about yourself and the kind of person you're looking for. Leave all negativity and inappropriate or offensive writing out.
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Step 4
Be realistic. If you are a 60-year-old man and you write that you are looking for women 20 to 40, you are not likely to attract many dates. It's OK to have specific ideas in mind of what you're looking for, but keep it open-minded and realistic.
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Step 5
Post great pictures of yourself. These should be recent (within a year) and be clear, non-distracting shots. Do not post pictures that have other people in them, especially members of the opposite sex. Only post photos that you have you in them. Posting a picture of just your dog will not help the reader know if he or she is attracted to you.
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Step 6
Be honest in your essay. Lying about your age means you are starting off the relationship with a lie. It's not necessary to divulge everything about yourself but don't stretch the truth. When you meet potential dates, they will find out the truth anyway.
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Step 7
If you are having a lot of trouble writing your essay or coming up with a good headline, consider enlisting the help of a professional writer.
