Step1
How It Looked At The Outset
LOCATION: Find a spot that's clear of trees or other kinds of brush. At our home, we constructed a "Talking Circle" out of rocks (kind of goes with the territory when you're a philosopher), with the three fire pits placed about equidistant around it. But you don't have to be so elaborate. One simple spot will do, around which you can place some chairs and/or sleeping bags. I'm going to give you the simplest "recipe" here, but I'll add some safety tips and so on at the end of this article.
Step2
DIGGING: If this is your first time doing this, I recommend using a shovel (you'll need to own one, as subsequent steps will make clear) to dig a hole about 2 feet deep and 3.5 feet wide in diameter. Once that's all squared (or rounded, rather) away, straight down, all the way around, do this: remove all grass for another 8" beyond the lip of the hole.
Step3
THE EXTRA DIRT OR SAND THAT YOU'VE DUG UP: Form a mound with it, not far from the pit itself (no more than 10 feet away). Whenever you actually use your pit, break out your shovel beforehand and slam it down into your mound. Should the fire for any reason ever rise or drift beyond your comfort zone, simply use the shovel to pour dirt into the pit. This will virtually always bring it under control.
Step4
One of the Author's Larger Pits, Placed Outside the Talking Circle
PLACING THE ROCKS: Place the rocks around the 8" wide lip of the hole. I recommend using football-sized rocks (boulders?) to wrap around your pit. You'll probably need about a dozen of these. Any gaps can be filled in with smaller rocks, or you can also just use softball-sized rocks all the way around. The main rocks you use should stand up at least 4" off the ground, but preferably between 6" and 10".
Step5
THE FIRE DEPARTMENT: It is always wise, and sometimes mandatory (as in our dry neck of the desert), to contact your fire department, let them know what you're up to, and obtain from them a fire burning permit. Follow their rules. Firemen and firewomen are virtually always great to work with, and they will gladly come out and inspect your handiwork.
Step6
NEVER GO TO SLEEP WITHOUT COMPLETELY EXTINGUISHING YOUR FIRE: Lay it to rest before you lay your happily weary head down or decide to retreat into the house to have a drink with your late-night friends. First things first. Use the shovel and the sand or dirt to ensure that the embers have all been completely extinguished. For me, this is one of the nicest parts of the experience, because it's then that I get to reflect upon family, guests, and what was accomplished in this intimate setting. If you're lucky, your sky might look like the photo at the left even before the evening's festivities begin. Lucky us. Which brings us full circle to: LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION! -Larry Fike
Step7
Talking Circle Without a Fire Pit: Think of How Much More Intimate It Would Be With One!
YOU'RE VIRTUALLY DONE WITH THE BASICS! Below, under Tips and Warnings, I'll add more elaborate advice, but I'll write a separate article eventually about how to build a fire. Obviously you'll need matches or a lighter, dry wood, and ideally some kindling (usually twigs, but you can use newspaper alone in a pinch. We use both.) Enjoy your pit in solitude, with family, and with friends. I certainly have. They're a great place to meditate, to converse, and to ponder the day's doings with loved ones.