How to Propose Marriage With Style

It’s finally happened—you’ve met the man or woman of your dreams and want to take the big step to marriage. The first thing to realize is that there is no perfect proposal. Everyone is different, and you should follow your instincts to make popping the question a memorable moment.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Spend time thinking about your potential fiancée. What are their interests? What style suits them best? Have they hinted at what they find romantic?

2. Make a list of all the reasons you want to marry your partner. Include the little things that make you smile to show sincerity and thought. Consider using this list in your actual proposal.

3. Create an atmosphere that reflects you and your partner using the information you generated before. If you are outdoors-people, consider proposing while on a hike or picnic. If your partner has a passion for a particular hobby, incorporate this into your plan. Tailor the proposal to your interests.

4. Get a ring. Proposing with a ring is crucial if you really want this person to be your lifelong partner. A ring shows that you have given your proposal significant thought and are certain you are ready for this next step. If you aren’t sure what your fiancée would like for a ring, check with friends, family, or buy something simple that can go with just about any wedding band.

5. Keep it simple. When planning the proposal, don’t overcomplicate it with putting the ring in food or hiding it somewhere. This leaves too much room for things to go wrong.

6. Organize ahead and seek help, if it’s necessary, to make the proposal go very smoothly. Planning ahead will make everything go much smoother when you actually propose.

7. Stay calm. A nervous person sends up warning signs. Act naturally and be confident.

8. Ask the question. Make sure that you actually ask your partner to marry you in way that requires a “yes” or “no” answer!

Tips & Warnings

• The key to a successful proposal is being genuine and focusing on your potential fiancée’s interests.
• Keep it secret. The best proposals are the ones that aren’t expected. Don’t let on to what you’re planning or it may spoil the surprise!

[andrewschiffer]

on 11/12/2009 Well I could do with Selena Gomez.