How to Be Closer to your Spouse or Significant Other

Stop putting other things in front of your relationship! If your relationship has been less satisfying lately, here's how to get back on track.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. First, eliminate other variables. If you have kids, drop them off with a babysitter for the night. If your house is a mess, clean it. The idea is to start with a completely clear head so that other things don't get in the way of romance.
2. Think about things you used to do when life was simple. If you used to cuddle up on the couch together with a glass of wine and a movie, consider doing that. The idea is to re-spark the feelings you had before you started feeling tired and stressed out.
3. Consider replaying your first date. It may not be possible to do the exact date over again (If you've moved or the weather is bad), but if this is the case, re-create it at home. Set up a picnic on the living room floor with the same meals you ate that day. It can be as simple or elaborate as you want.
4. If re-creating a date isn't your style, consider a new date of something you might both enjoy but have never tried. This can be hiking, paintballing, visiting a museum, anything! If you both enjoy it together, it will bring you closer to each other.

Tips & Warnings

• Add romance with candles, soft music, massages, etc.
• Don't choose activities to try together that you don't think your spouse would like.