Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Look at your options. Do you attend church regularly? Maybe the minister at your church would agree to be your officiant. There's also the possibility that a friend of a friend is a minister and wouldn't mind speaking to you about the prospect.
Step2
Have a heart to heart with whomever you're considering. You want to know that they are on the same page as you. Come to an understanding about vows and other such things involved in the ceremony.
Step3
Discuss the fees. Some ministers will go pro bono, but most do require a small payment.
Step4
Ask if they require you to participate in marriage counseling. If you're prepared to do so, then there's no problem. But if you are uncomfortable with the prospect, opt for someone a bit more lenient on the subject.