Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Understand that sex is not the “be all, end all” to a great time. Many men who become older develop a passion for a career and go on to do great things.
Step2
Find your passion and focus in on it. Successful men have many things in common. One of the most common denominators is focus. One of the most common distractions is sex with women.
Step3
Develop tough skin and prepare to respond to an onslaught of criticism, jokes and belittling. Most women want to get positive feedback regarding their desirability toward men. When you tell a woman no, they will say such things as, “What’s wrong? Got a little problem down there?,” “Are you gay?,” “I knew you couldn’t back up all that talk.” Don’t fall for it. Be confident in your skin.
Step4
Say no by using the following: "I’m a man of moral integrity and I don’t have sex outside of marriage," "I’d like to save my soul and obey the commands in the Bible," "I don’t engage in casual sex. I’m into meaningful relationships," "No way. With all the diseases out there, who has casual sex these days?," "No thank you," "If it’s that easy, I don’t want it" and "Give me the opportunity to honor you."
Comments
arwen1964 said
on 2/2/2008 I think it is very sweet of a man to be willing to risk the perception of his masculinity to stand up for his principles.