How to Leave an Unfaithful Spouse

Only you can determine your true value. The things you tolerate and the things you deem acceptable for yourself speak volumes about how you value yourself. If your spouse is considered your “other half” and they treat you terribly, then you should treat them like you would treat any virus or instrument that attacks your body. Failing to treat unfaithfulness from your spouse is the same as failing to treat a virus which attacks your body. It will slowly kill you, literally! There is a way to rid you of this danger.

Instructions

Difficulty: Challenging

1. Don’t speculate on whether you think your spouse is being unfaithful. If you suspect it, act as normal as possible. Verify for sure that it is the case, without raising suspicion. It may take time. Do not grow impatient. An unfaithful spouse will eventually be revealed.
2. Understand that your marriage is no longer special.
3. Understand that you deserve better. Understand that your unfaithful spouse has involved themselves in the most intimate act with someone else and they would like to bring that filth home to you.
4. Consider what your vows were, which probably said until death do us part. Now consider what Jesus said in the Bible in the book of Matthew chapter 19 verse 9. A man should not divorce his wife or a wife her husband except for unfaithfulness. Unfaithfulness is such a horrendous act, that it is the only act that Jesus' said justifies divorce.
5. Act normal and get all your finances and personal affairs together (money in the bank, joint credit cards, P.O. Box). You don’t want them to pull all the money from the account or run up credit card balances once they realize you are leaving them.
6. Confront your spouse and let them know you know. If they apologize, accept it. If they ask for another chance tell them no. If they ask why, tell them its because the marriage is no longer special and that you deserve better.
7. Tell them goodbye and mean it, so that you can move on with your life.

Tips & Warnings

• Value you. Set standards for yourself and honor them.
• There are over six billion people in the world. There is someone out there that is willing to treat you like royalty. Don’t go back to this person. They will do it again and it will be just as painful.