By smilesatme1
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For Husbands who have kids in their previous marriage you need to balance the attention and time to your first marriage children and to your new wife. Because if you only spend time and go out with your kids and left your new wife alone in the house, expect divorce papers knocking in your door. Do not concentrate only in one side and if you cannot handle the obligation that you promise to your new wife, do not even think of the future at all. Go spend time with your kids and separate from your new wife. It is not healthy between among members when favoritism is the issue. The father works all day or most of the days in a week and the step mother is the one who take care and watch all the kids of your husband but when he has a day off, he only bring his kids with him to his own family and left the step mother behind. Well, if you are the step mother of those kids, what will you do. You are nice and kind to them and to your husbands family but for some reasons they just do not like you at all. I know someone who has a situation like this and she told me that she cannot wait to file a divorce paper. But I told her that tell your husband what you feel about the situation before deciding to get divorce. And she said that she is the only who try to work out the problems because according to her husbands she is the only one has an issue not him or his kids. And then she finally decide to get a divorce and when she told him ,he threaten to take suicide if she will leave him. Now she is afraid to do it because she do not want to be liable on his death. What do you think the right move to do?