How to Prepare a Child to Leave Home

Some children are shy and introverted while others are extremely outgoing and blessed with the gift of gab. Both of these types of children will someday think they’re ready to spread their wings and fly, leaving the coop behind. In order to help prepare your child to leave home, travel abroad or simply take a vacation with friends, try these suggestions. Read on to learn more.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. As he enters sixth, seventh or eighth grade, depending on his maturity, talk to him about his leaving when he is older.
2. Some will stay home longer than others, but remember much of her day of departure depends on her maturity and her ability to support herself.
3. While he is growing up discuss with him where he would like to live when he’s older. This will get him to think about his adulthood and what he wants to do as an adult.
4. Talk about college and what she wants to do when she’s grown. Remember that she will change her mind many times before she is certain of her choice, but regardless she will still leave home to do it.
5. Go on vacations to different areas so she isn’t intimidated by different places and people.
6. Travel together, even if it’s short, half day trips. This will help him be comfortable in the idea of being somewhere new.
7. Teach her how to do the things she will need to know when she is on her own, such as laundry, cooking, budgeting and shopping.
8. Reassure him that his family will always be there and he can always come home.

Tips & Warnings

• Be careful you don’t make him feel like you’re pushing him out or anxious for him to leave.