How to Find Love Studying Abroad

Studying abroad is almost always a rewarding experience because of the new culture, the friends you will make and the self-knowledge you will gain. However, this trip can be a bit rough on your love life because of language barriers and other cultural norms unknown to you. Follow these steps to meet your foreign love match.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Do not hang out in places where tourists swarm because, like you, they are on their way somewhere else and will not likely be interested in something long-lasting.
2. Ride a chicken, proudly. In Spanish, having a fit or having a cow is literally to ride a chicken ("montar un pollo"). Even if you are not bilingual, speak the language of your host country. The locals will appreciate your courage, and you will eventually know more words than when you came.
3. Go outside your comfort zone by trying to do things the nationals enjoy. For instance, if you are in Spain, go to a soccer party at a friend's house.
4. Be flexible. Getting to know people takes time, especially when in a foreign country. You may have to alter your daily routine to fit in your classes and social engagements. If you're the person who used to get up at 5 a.m. to go running, you may have to settle for a long walk home from the bar at 2 a.m.
5. Make a "transition friend." Find someone, preferably a cultural and linguistically bilingual individual, who will help you navigate the cultural norms regarding dating and relationships.

Tips & Warnings

• Be honest with yourself. If you know that you are doing this trip to indulge a whim and will never need to come back, avoid strong emotional attachments.