How to Lose Your Self Repect.

One of the most important things that 'you' must learn is to respect yourself. If you don't respect yourself, no one else will. This article teaches how to lose your self respect and destroy yourself. I want everyone to learn these techniques, and by doing so, then you will be able to avoid doing any of them. And more importantly, I don't what you to learn these techniques through experience. As always, my prayer for you and your loved ones is to remain healthy and safe, become wealthy, and grow wiser.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• Too much patience
• Compromising your values
• A will to put others first before your own needs
• Rose colored glasses

1. 1. First of all, always put others before yourself.
   2. Settle for less.
   3. Mistreat yourself by tolerating mistreatment from others.
   4. Consider the needs of others while neglecting your own.
   5. Never be good to yourself: taking seconds, always putting off your interests, always allowing someone to pull you around.
2. 1. Never see the truth for what it is.
   2. Look at the world through rose colored glasses.
   3. If you smell a stench, justify it by an explanation you can live with.
   4. If your life isn't what you want for yourself, make up a fantasy and believe the fantasy instead of seeing the truth about you.
3. 1. Never take action.
   2. Hope and 'pray' that everything will work out for the best.
   3. Stay in the relationship even when there is really 'no relationship.'
   4. Cover up for others so that the truth will not be revealed to anyone.
   5. Look the other way.
   6. Tolerate from others, your significant other, what you would not tolerate from yourself.

Tips & Warnings

• You cannot allow others to mistreat you. If you do, this is the first step toward losing your self-respect.
• GOD DOES NOT EXPECT YOU TO BE MISTREATED OR TO TOLERATE MISTREATMENT. WHEN WE TOLERATE MISTREATMENT, WE ARE ENABLING THE PERSON TO CONTINUE TO DO AS HE OR SHE DOES. WE ARE ASSISTING HIM OR HER IN THEIR MISDEEDS.
• Never compromise your values. When you continue to associate with others who do not exhibit the same values as you hold dear to your heart, you are compromising your values. This will destroy you.
• When you tolerate mistreatment from others, in time, you will begin to believe that you deserve to be treated the way you are being treated.
• When you don't stand up for yourself, and tolerate the mistreatment, the person who is mistreating you begins to believe that you deserve the mistreatment and that he or she is not doing anything wrong.
• When you tolerate mistreatment from others, you will turn into this person that you don't recognize; a person you do not like.
• When you cover up for someone, you are living a lie.
• If you live the lie long enough, when you start finally telling the truth, no one will believe you. SAD BUT TRUE. BEEN THERE; DONE THAT.
• It will take a long time to regain your self-respect once it has been lost. Once you have lost your self-respect, others will not respect you also, and the person you may be trying to hold on to is going to leave anyway.
• Check out my space.com/treciagayle for songs that tell more.