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How to Raise a Large Family

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By Telika
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As a mother of 4 children all under the age of 9, many people ask me how do I do it? I am also the oldest of 5, so here are some principles I have learned in how to raise a big family successfully.

Difficulty: Challenging
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Start young with your child in implementing rules. What you get your children used to now will be with them when they are teenagers. Don't just let them do what they want "because they are just kids" now and then expect to raise them when they become teenagers--that won't work.

  2. Step 2

    Follow up the breaking of rules with discipline. Don't delay the discipline, be consistent but loving. I get comments that my children are very well behaved because I never waver from discipline. Make sure it's age appropriate and it's explained to the child what rule they broke.

  3. Step 3

    Have patience and enjoy the ride. Love your children no matter what phase they are in. Time goes by fast, so enjoy every moment. Fill your time taking them to the park, making homemade projects, baking cupcakes, etc. Have fun! The more children, the merrier.

  4. Step 4

    Big families must stay on a tight budget. Don't go over your budget no matter what. Find ways to enjoy each other with very little money involved. Seek financial counsel if you are clueless on how to implement and stick to a budget.

Tips & Warnings
  • Whether you are a working or a stay-at-home parent, you can raise a successful large family.
  • Get help from your friends and family. There's always a job for someone to relieve the stress on you.

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lilwing said

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on 10/30/2008 I hope I'm half the mother you are when I have children") Great article 5 stars...

LilacGirl said

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on 10/6/2008 Good article with good suggestions for raising a large family.

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on 10/6/2008 Terrific article. Consistency is often underestimated in raising children.

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on 10/6/2008 Terrific article. Consistency is often underestimated in raising children.

Psalmist4M said

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on 9/13/2008 You have WHAT?? Your picture looks like a teenager! This is a wonderful article. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. 5*s cherylgoff.com

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