One of the hardest things in life is dealing with being homeless. I once was homeless and what made it worst was my children were homeless with me. Here's how I made it through.
Look into the yellow pages and seek out homeless shelters. Make sure shelters know you have children. Most likely they will put you on the preferred list for space. There are also many shelters that specialize in families.
Step2
Most states have laws that state that your children have the right to attend school even when you are homeless. Don't take your children out of school but instead talk to the school officials about your situation. I had a free cab arranged to get my children to and from school even though the homeless shelter I was at was out of range.
Step3
Don't have too much pride to seek out family and friends help. In my case my family were out of state but I made caring friends through the church I attended who gave me rides and help me seek out resources.
Step4
Don't forget to love your children everyday. This may sound crazy but when you are homeless and trying to find a job, place to live and food to eat, you tend to forget about just loving on your children. Take the time to hug them, kiss them and let them know that the situation you are in will not last forever. Let them know it's OK to just be kids and to still play and have fun.
on 9/12/2008
Thanks for sharing Telika. I've been there too with my son and it was my faith and prayer that got me through. I stayed in that shelter for 31 days then moved to where I am now. It is not easy but doable. With God all things are possible even when it doesn't seem like it. That which does not kill us makes us stronger.
on 7/26/2008
Thanks for the reply. I understand they could not afford to pay all that you owe. But could they have somehow prevented you from becoming homeless? Could they have paid your rent for a few months? A church I use to attend in my City takes in approx. $600, 000 / yr. I live in Canada and this information is public knowledge if you are a registered Charity. The church I attend now www.calvaryottawa.ca takes in allot less than that and the pastor offered to pay my rent. I just think that something could have been done before it got to the point where you would have to live in a homeless shelter. If Church, friends and family cannot intervene (WWJD) and prevent one from becoming homeless then what good can they be later on. In that case I would omit step 3.
Philippians 2:20,21 "For I have no man likeminded, who will naturally care for your state. For all seek their own, not the thi
on 7/24/2008
I understand where you are come from Pmci but my family friends and church simply could not afford to pay all I owed, that was my responsiblity I lost my living situation because I was laid off from work. But I am doing excellent now and I think God was showing me that I only needed to rely on Him and have faith. I am living a very blessed and successful life now. www.myspace.com/beyonditallmag
p.s. yes the cab was provided through a program I guess through the state.
on 7/8/2008
"I had a free cab arranged..." How did you do this? Was this something the state provided? "Don't have too much pride to seek out family and friends help." If you had real friends and family you would not be in this sitution in the first place. "But I made caring friends through the church I attended..." That is a lie. If you had caring friends through the church you attended then again you would have been able to prevent the situation. See what happened to Esmin Green. Where was her church when she lost her job, apartment and waited alone in a psychaitric hospital waiting room for over 24 hours and died there?
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thedogshrink said
on 10/6/2008 Very good article. Well written and most important, you didn't forget the LOVE>
changeling said
on 9/12/2008 Thanks for sharing Telika. I've been there too with my son and it was my faith and prayer that got me through. I stayed in that shelter for 31 days then moved to where I am now. It is not easy but doable. With God all things are possible even when it doesn't seem like it. That which does not kill us makes us stronger.
pmci said
on 7/26/2008 Thanks for the reply. I understand they could not afford to pay all that you owe. But could they have somehow prevented you from becoming homeless? Could they have paid your rent for a few months? A church I use to attend in my City takes in approx. $600, 000 / yr. I live in Canada and this information is public knowledge if you are a registered Charity. The church I attend now www.calvaryottawa.ca takes in allot less than that and the pastor offered to pay my rent. I just think that something could have been done before it got to the point where you would have to live in a homeless shelter. If Church, friends and family cannot intervene (WWJD) and prevent one from becoming homeless then what good can they be later on. In that case I would omit step 3.
Philippians 2:20,21 "For I have no man likeminded, who will naturally care for your state. For all seek their own, not the thi
Telika said
on 7/24/2008 I understand where you are come from Pmci but my family friends and church simply could not afford to pay all I owed, that was my responsiblity I lost my living situation because I was laid off from work. But I am doing excellent now and I think God was showing me that I only needed to rely on Him and have faith. I am living a very blessed and successful life now. www.myspace.com/beyonditallmag
p.s. yes the cab was provided through a program I guess through the state.
pmci said
on 7/8/2008 "I had a free cab arranged..." How did you do this? Was this something the state provided? "Don't have too much pride to seek out family and friends help." If you had real friends and family you would not be in this sitution in the first place. "But I made caring friends through the church I attended..." That is a lie. If you had caring friends through the church you attended then again you would have been able to prevent the situation. See what happened to Esmin Green. Where was her church when she lost her job, apartment and waited alone in a psychaitric hospital waiting room for over 24 hours and died there?