How to Get a man's attention at a party?

By velocity

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Have you ever walked into a party and looked around only to see all of the girls flirting and laughing with men? Wearing little skirts that show their upper thighs and braless sun tops. How does one person draw so much attention? Is there enough conversation in the world to carry on with such laughter? Is it that funny? Next you second guess yourself by looking down at what you have on and now your feeling a bit overdressed, isolated and insecure. Your feelings are involved; your emotions are running high; you feel like you just don't fit in and you'll never be able find a man under such circumstances, but you're wrong...

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

  • Dignity
  • Confidence
Step1
Take out your entire winter or spring wardrobe whichever season it is and lay them down. You don't have to go buy anything new except for accessories if you don't already have them. Sort and piece together an entirely different look. STEP OUTSIDE OF THE BOX.S tart to take apart those OUTFITS you've warn and not match them but mesh them with something else. Take a chance! That's the only way this will work.
Step2
Pamper yourself!!! Take time out of your busy schedule and lifestyle and slow down. Mostly Sundays are self-pamper day. The time to give yourself a manicure, pedicure, facial and a nice long hot bubble bath. Renew your faith in yourself that is the only way someone else will believe in you.
Step3
You DO NOT have to please anyone but yourself. Just because someone else did this or that does not mean that you have to do it. BE YOURSELF I don't even know you but for me that is good enough.
Step4
The next time you appear at a party in your new look. The crowd turns to you only to see you fidget, but you don't; instead you glide over to your destination preferably the bar. Not only have ALL the women seen you before you got in the door but by now most men are checking you out. Stay calm, graceful and confident but don't get cocky. Humiliation is the standard reward for cockiness so be cool.
Step5
After the men pretty much fight over who will approach you remain calm. Keep your conversation guided and no matter what don't let them see you sweat. Be as casual as possible

Tips & Warnings

  • Keep your dignity about everything including your attire; remember a short skirt and a braless sun top will not get you respect.
  • Maintain a gracious flow throughout the night; keep count of your drinks the worse thing to watch is a beautiful lady stumble out of a party.
  • Open up don't go to a sociable atmosphere and act like you can't speak. This makes you look snobby and men do not like snobs.
  • REMEMBER: You DO NOT have to fit in anywhere you go; the world fits into you. YOU are all that matters and all that counts don't let anyone else make you feel any less.

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