Difficulty: Moderately Challenging
Step1
Take out your entire winter or spring wardrobe whichever season it is and lay them down. You don't have to go buy anything new except for accessories if you don't already have them. Sort and piece together an entirely different look. STEP OUTSIDE OF THE BOX.S tart to take apart those OUTFITS you've warn and not match them but mesh them with something else. Take a chance! That's the only way this will work.
Step2
Pamper yourself!!! Take time out of your busy schedule and lifestyle and slow down. Mostly Sundays are self-pamper day. The time to give yourself a manicure, pedicure, facial and a nice long hot bubble bath. Renew your faith in yourself that is the only way someone else will believe in you.
Step3
You DO NOT have to please anyone but yourself. Just because someone else did this or that does not mean that you have to do it. BE YOURSELF I don't even know you but for me that is good enough.
Step4
The next time you appear at a party in your new look. The crowd turns to you only to see you fidget, but you don't; instead you glide over to your destination preferably the bar. Not only have ALL the women seen you before you got in the door but by now most men are checking you out. Stay calm, graceful and confident but don't get cocky. Humiliation is the standard reward for cockiness so be cool.
Step5
After the men pretty much fight over who will approach you remain calm. Keep your conversation guided and no matter what don't let them see you sweat. Be as casual as possible