How to End an Ongoing Custody Battle

By Becca

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Learn some tips to help you end an ongoing custody battle.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

  • Paper and pen
Step1
Determine the key points that both parties conflict over. Make two detailed lists. One should include why you should have custody and the other list should be why your ex should not have custody. Keep it as concise and to the point as possible and try not to make it too long.
Step2
Check off any dead ends. If you have already found sufficient proof for certain issues or if proof cannot be found then cross it off your list. Be creative when determining if an issue cannot be proven. For example, something that may seem to be one word against another may be swayed by a third party witness who has no loyalty to either side.
Step3
Gather more physical evidence. If necessary, hire a private investigator to take pictures of your ex engaging in inappropriate behaviors such as keeping the kids out late on a school night or drinking and driving with them in the car. Be sure to also obtain physical proof of the reasons why you should be the sole parent with custody. For example, if in the past you had trouble holding down a job and it is being used against you, get a letter of recommendation from your current employer outlining the stability of your current job.

Tips & Warnings

  • The more physical proof you have the better of you will be.
  • Be assertive, but always present yourself in a professional manner while maintaining your calm.
  • Don't fabricate proof; if your scheme is found out you will have another strike against you.

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Mark Ruffolo

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on 1/10/2008 Very good article!

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on 1/10/2008 Very good article!

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