How to spice up a boring relationship?

By velocity

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Sometimes we get so involved with life, working and living that we forget how to maintain the small flame that burns in our relationships at home. Not tending to or appreciating that flame on a regular basis eventually it goes out. Here are some tips to keep that flame burning in an attempt to rekindle the love that has already been lost.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

  • Candles
  • Soft Music
  • Board Games
  • Roses
  • Bottle of red wine

Step1
When the both of you come home from work always give eachother a big hug. (This shows that we both can understand we've worked hard today and can appreciate that we are both here for one another.) Showing your partner support is the best thing in the world. They feel confident and loved and mostly appreciated and this is what matters.
Step2
Give eachother space in the house, but at a certain time come together for a movie or a board game. (spend some time together other than dinner time.) With this being done you can enjoy eachothers company and conversations reminding you of the reasons why you fell in love with them in the first place.
Step3
When your partner comes home from work have a nice hot candle lit bubble bath waiting (ladies this is great to do for men being as though some of them haven't had baths since their younger days.) A man that hasn't enjoyed a hot bubble bath in years will appreciate this muscle relaxing sensation but would appreciate you more for re-introducing him.
Step4
When you arent tired from working all day and you get home early. Play the game of hide and seek. Take the heads off of stemed red roses and make paths all around the house. The first path leads to a note where your partner should travel to first and so forth until your partner ends up in bed. (Playing is always nice especially for older couples makes you redeem some of the youth and vitality you thought you lost)
Step5
Not just on special occasions but do something SWEET notice I didn’t say nice for your partner (sweet deeds are measured by a bigger scale and more appreciated!)

Tips & Warnings

  • These steps places a HUGE impact on your relationship by showing your parter that you feel the same way you felt the day the two of you announced you were in love. Enjoy the rest of your lives together!!!

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