Step1
I know some people are embarrassed by this but I feel if you are able to go through egg donations or sperm donations, why not do this first.
Step2
As long as the man doesn't have problems ejaculating, this should increase your chances. When you go to the doctors, they give you specific times that you can have a baby like 5pm or something like that. If you work it like a concentration camp, well good luck. YOU have to be in the mood.
Step3
Some women, like me, feel a little silly watching porn with their man. I wind up critiquing it instead of enjoying it. but unfortunately like the good ol' days, when it is hard for you two to conceive, you cant just lay there like a stiff board and say ohh and ahh. This is a Team Effort!
Step4
Okay! Ladies, Make sure your man is somewhere in the house and available for anything. Don't tell him to be ready or anything. Let it be a surprise. I promise he will enjoy it. He can be sleeping or on the computer, but not during his favorite game or on an important call. Try to learn his schedule.
Step5
Go into a private room as if you would to masturbate. Get a porno that can turn you on completely or watch many to do the same effect. There is a point you reach when you can almost just touch yourself to get the big O, but don't! if you can feel your lubed naturally down there and stimulated in your chest, ( you can help yourself out with that part)
Step6
Go down stairs or where ever your husband is. No sweet talking. only do 4play to help him out because you're ready. Don't make him ejaculate if you decide to do fellatio (give head). only get him to the point where his soldier is standing. (If you wait too long you may dry up even though you may still be into it. The key is to remain extremely (naturally) wet.
Step7
any position you want, but if you can handle being on top, the better. He needs to guide your hips. don't let him just lay there as you would. THIS IS A TEAM EFFORT!!! You both need to be in it together. When you are on top you can move anyway you want to keep yourself as wet as possible. Moaning is great! Hopefully you shouldn't need to finger yourself while you are doing it because since you are on top your ****erous should be rubbing against your man.
Step8
When he is about to ejaculate, keep your self down on him. When you are wet and ready to have your big O ( please be aware that your big O feels differently when you are having sex from being eaten out.) your kegel muscles start contracting which really helps his swimmers get to their destination rather than if they had to do it on their own.
Think of it as a sling shot instead of you just throwing a rock. Get the picture?
Step9
Don't wash immediately. Lay there for a while because your body will still be at work. Heck! do it again if you are up to it. He will be happy that it was at 6:57pm instead of receiving a text saying "Hunny, it's 5pm. Take off your pants."
Step10
I wish you all the best of luck and hopefully you can do it before you the doctors give you drugs. I am not saying that the drugs don't work, what I am saying is sometime the drugs have side effects (like it might make your genitals dry, or turn you off completely)that may hinder your chance to naturally conceive.
Good luck and if you try it and 6weeks later you're pregnant, please let me know.
ENJOY!
I'm only a few steps away!
Enthusiast 
Comments
cherigirl29 said
on 6/26/2008 I enjoyed this article! I did this with my husband a few days ago and am crossing my fingers that it results in a baby!
italeona said
on 1/27/2008 I am glad it worked for you. It worked for me. I didn't use the pillow although that seems like it would help. Thank's for your comment
MarqWinks said
on 1/27/2008 From a male perspective. I know this will work. It did for us at least once. We did the woman on top position with a pillow under my butt. We talked about what we were doing. We timed our orgasms so that I started just before she did. We both had very powerful orgasms. I could actually feel her cervix spasm against me. Once we finished we rolled over and put the pillow under her butt. Best of luck. :-)