Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
Many Taoist believe that the loss of ejaculatory fluids is a loss of qi, or life force. Retaining semen while still being able to orgasm is key in Taoist sexual practices. Exercises that strengthen the muscles around the prostate, anus and genitalia are one way of accomplishing this goal. Another method is though retrograde ejaculation, which is when the man applies pressure to the perineum before ejaculating.
Step2
More jing is also created for the man by ensuring that the woman orgasms as well. However, women are encouraged to orgasm as much as they desire. And according to Taoism, there are 9 steps in the female orgasm, but she is rarely taken past the fourth.
Step3
There are certain times when it's better to have to sex. It's best to avoid full and quarter moons, during the winter and summer solstices,or days when there is intense winds, rain, fog, cold or heat, thunder and lightning. Also, avoid sex during solar and lunar eclipses, when rainbows are present, or during violent acts of nature like an earthquake, hurricane or tornado.
Step4
Taoists don't engage in sex while under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Women should avoid sex during menstruation and pregnancy.
Step5
The location is also an important factor to consider. Keep out of the glare of the sun, moon and stars, and keep a far distance from any sacred places of worship, wells, stoves, privies, graves and coffins. Sunsets are also not ideal times for sex because this is a time of low energy.
Step6
The eyes should remain closed during sex because the eyes are the windows of the soul and energy is lost through the eyes. Energy is concentrated in the genitalia so the rest of the body needs to be protected. Internal focus is key. This is especially true for men.
Comments
WillieLee1 said
on 2/2/2008 Also from reading it seems as though someone is either playing a game or superstitious.
WillieLee1 said
on 2/2/2008 So if you women will have your man go for 4 hours none stop, you got to let him know that you believe in his capabilities, and encourage him to try. Also if you love your man confident make sure his penis is aching to ejaculate moderately more often then not...(Precautionary-- it seems that suction on the penis allows for the production of sperm to increase, due to this be very knowledgeable about the sperm incase of mating for child baring...because we do not need children coming out disfigured or transparent, oddity stuff).