How to Have a Healthy Love Relationship

The statistics are against us. Keeping a long term relationship healthy and thriving is tough work, but it is achievable. With shows like "The Bachelor" and "Paradise Island" out there we see how easily we enter into casual relationships, but if you are in a deep and meaningful relationship now, here are some ways to keep it going.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

• An open mind
• The desire to make things work

How to Have a Healthy Relationship

1. Communicate. I know it sounds cliche, but people grow apart when they stop talking. Set aside time away from the kids or the TV to talk about both the important issues and the inconsequential. Solve problems together and celebrate small daily victories.
2. Be physical. Fill your day with small touches, tickles and caresses to make your mate feel special, loved and cherished.
3. Fight clean. Everyone argues, but keep it clean and make sure you don't include personal insults, curses and old issues. Deal with the issue at hand in a caring way and don't resort to school yard taunts and insults.

Tips & Warnings

• Send greeting cards or e-cards to help your communication. Sites like Hallmark.com allow you to schedule delivery of your e-cards so that you can brighten the day of your mate all month long.