How to organise an introduction ceremony in some African tradition

Organising an introduction ceremony in African tradition is a sign of respect and thanks giving between the boy's family and the girl's family.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• cow
• goat
• cock
• money

Bellow are the steps regarding this matter

1. .Buy a nice suit for your self
   .Buy a nice suit for your partner's father
   .Buy a nice suit for your brother in raw
   .Buy a cock for your brother in raw
   .Buy a nice dress for your partner's mother
   .Buy a nice dress for your partner's grand mother
   .Buy a nice suit for your partner's grand father
   .Buy a nice dress for your partner's aunt

2. Prepare heavy envelopes for the following people on the side of your wife to be:-
   .Your partner's father
   .Your partner's grand father
   .Your partner's grand mother
   .Your brother in raw
   .Your partner's aunt

3. Buy the following gifts for your wife to be:
   .A suit case
   .A nice dress
   .Nice pair of shoes
   .A golden neckless or silver
   .Nice pants and other under wears

4. Prepare the following gifts for your partner's family:
   .One cow or more
   .A goat
   .Atleast one bag of sugar or more
   .A box of soap or more
   .A bag of rice or more
   .A jerican of cooking oil or more
   .A jerican of paraffin or more
   .A box of tea or more
   .A box of match box or more
   .Atleast ten crates of beer or more
   .Atleast ten crates of soda or more
   .one calabash of alcohol

5. Prepare the following to make your ceremony great and respectiful:
   .Hire a good speaker
   .Get a video coverage
   .Get a good photographer
   .Prepare music

6. Invite the heads of family, clan members,your great friends and neighbours to attend the ceremony.

7. Before the ceremony takes place, organise meetings for atleast every sunday and ask for contributions and assistance from your friends and family members

8. Get guidance and counselling from the elders who are more experienced in the field of marriage

Tips & Warnings

• Before you organise an introduction ceremony, it is good to first search about your partner's behaviour inorder to avoid future problems