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How to Kiss a Girl

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Kiss the girl.
Kiss the girl.

Now that you've found a girl you want to get physical with, make sure you start off right. This article takes you from not kissing all the way to French kissing.

Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Lips
  • A (willing) girl
  1. Step 1

    Keep your breath fresh. Make sure to brush your tongue each time you brush your teeth, and do both regularly. If you'll be meeting your girl later, avoid foods with powerful scents like garlic and onions. For a quick freshness boost, keep mints or gum handy but remember that those are only aides to support the good habits above.

  2. Step 2

    Pick the right moment. Watch for signs that your girl is feeling close to you, such as: smiling & laughing in conversation; touching your arm; or leaning her head on your shoulder.

  3. Step 3

    Start slowly. Don't surprise your girl with a first kiss. Send nonverbal signals to let her know what you're thinking, such as: leaning in towards her or holding her hand and gently tugging it toward you. Do not go for more "sensitive" areas like the hips, butt, or breasts.

  4. Step 4

    Wait for her to respond. If she matches your action, that's the signal she's ready. If she doesn't lean in toward you or turns her head away, the time isn't right. Do not force the kiss on her; that's a sure way to make sure you never get a second kiss.

  5. Step 5

    Kiss the girl. Start with a short, closed-mouth kiss. If she responds well, do another short kiss. Continue this, and as long as she's still into it feel free to start making your kisses longer. An important part of kissing is to always move slowly. Fast moves get you rejected; slow moves turn your girl on and open the door for more.

  6. Step 6

    How far will you go? Don't expect too much on your first kiss. A short closed-mouth kiss is a great start. Several is even better. If it goes further than that, congratulations! As long as your girl is responding positively, you can continue to get closer. Open your mouth slightly and see if she does the same. Even if you move to the open-mouth kiss, don't use your tongue for a while. It's a whole separate step.

  7. Step 7

    If you've been open-mouth kissing for a little while, you can try using your tongue. First, gently touch your tongue to her lips as a signal that you want to use your tongue. If she does the same, that's her signal that it's ok. Start tracing your tongue slowly and softly over her lips. Make sure any contact between your tongue and hers is soft. As you continue to kiss, you can slowly increase the force of your tongue.

  8. Step 8

    Throughout the kissing, make sure your hands match what your lips are doing. For short kisses, keep your hands to yourself. As the kisses get longer and open mouth begins, "safe" areas like arms, shoulders, and legs below the knee are ok. Touching her face at this point is also good. As you start with the tongue, you can include the legs just above the knee or her waist. Stay away from the hips, butt and breasts until after you've been using the tongue for a while.

  9. Step 9

    Practice, practice, practice!

Tips & Warnings
  • Always be aware of the verbal or nonverbal signals your girl is sending. Practice will help you learn to recognize and interpret the signals. If you aren't sure what a signal means, ask. It's better than misinterpreting it and turning your girl off.

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on 12/12/2008 Get Step-by-Step PROVEN Kissing Techniques That Will Give You a Reputation for Being a Wonderful Kisser and Make Your Partner Beg For More!!

More guides at :
http://123guides.blogspot.com/2008/11/complete-guide-to-kissing-tips-and.html

znonez3 said

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on 3/22/2008 Damn u r good!

mark1967 said

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on 3/2/2008 that was funny.

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