How to know if you really want that tattoo

You've been toying with the idea of getting a tattoo. You even have an idea the image you want. But will it be worth the pain? And, more importantly, do you really want it etched into your skin for good?

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Paper
• Tape
• Markers
• Courage

1. Think long-term.
   
   Fads are temporary, and interests can fade. Your skin will last you a lifetime - so will the tattoo. Unless you want to devote hours of pain and tons of money to having it removed later on, make sure that your tattoo represents you in an ongoing, lifelong way. (Hint: The name of your current boyfriend or girlfriend is a big no-no.) Also, you may want to choose a body part that will not sag over time or stretch if you have kids.

2. Choose your design.
   
   This is the fun part - you have the idea, now pick the specific design that you want. It may be flash (tattoo shops are full of this pre-made artwork), something from the internet, the cover of your favorite book, or even a design drawn by yourself or a friend.

3. Look at it - a lot.
   
   Taping a picture of it to the wall. Draw a sketch of it on yourself in marker. Use it as your computer's desktop. Put it anywhere and everywhere you can think of. If you get sick of looking at it now, then how will you feel after it's been on your hip for twenty years?

4. Show it to your family and friends.
   
   They may see your design in an entirely different light, or they might point out some symbolism that you weren't aware of. If your butterfly looks like male anatomy or your apple turns out to be the logo of some computer company, wouldn't you rather hear it -before- you're stuck with it forever?

5. Go to a tattoo shop.
   
   Show the design to a tattoo artist. Once you tell them the size and location you are considering for your tat, they will be able to tell you if it needs to be modified and what the price range would be. If you are afraid of the pain aspect of getting a tattoo, ask if they will do a "dry run" on you with an clean, ink-free needle to give you an idea of how it feels. (There may be an extra charge for this.) You can also ask them questions about the healing process of a new tattoo.

6. Decide.
   
   Remember that you can back out right until the last minute. It is a lifelong decision, and it is one that should not be taken lightly. There's a reason that you have to be 18 to get a tattoo. If you really want one, then go for it - but don't let anyone else decide for you.

Tips & Warnings

• Pricing can be tricky with tattoos. While you may be tempted to shop around and find the best deal, this is not usually a good idea. Be wary of anyone offering a really good price. There's a reason for the saying among the tattoo community: "Cheap tattoos are not good, and good tattoos are not cheap."
• BEWARE of dirty tattoo shops. A good tattoo shop will be clean and hygienic; the artist should show you the brand-new needle as they take it out of the package just for you. If you wouldn't want to eat there, don't get a tattoo there. It's just not safe.
• A good tattoo shop should have pictures of previous work and offer clients as references if you ask. Ask around with people you know. All tattoo shops have a reputation, whether it is good or bad.

[GreenMomma]

on 3/23/2009 wonderful advice!

[2besure]

on 1/28/2009 This is a very personal choice, that the person will have to live with.

[vikki9]

on 6/8/2008 Good advice. A tattoo is a huge committment - best to give it a great deal of thought.