Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Step1
i was with a women for 3 years. not always easy times with periods of not seeing each other. i had many red flags as to future problems. stealing my fuel card and running up a 500 dollar bill. let it go. lying to me . using me for all fun times. paying for everything. taking off on a 4 wheeler with another man to hunt after we were going to that spot for her and me. just calling it quits and telling me to leave her and her new boyfriend alone because he loved her more then me. he is buying her more stuff. he even has a site on a singles looking for new girlfriends and he he loves her more. well he can have her. the jokes on me. she lost out big. i loved and let all the crimes done to me go. abuse ran rampant and I did nothing other to turn the other cheek. I thought it was love and she was my best friend. i was just used for 3 years.
Step2
my advice is if you get any red flags run like crazy away.
Step3
love with all your heart but don't just give your heart away with wishful thinking.
Novice 
