According to the National Alliance on Mental Illness, Major Depression affects 15 million adults. Depression is a very real and serious mental health issue.
The symptoms of depression include persistent sad mood, changes in sleep, appetite or energy, difficulty with concentration and memory, lack of interest or pleasure in pleasurable activities, lowered motivation, feelings of guilt, worthlessness and/or hopelessness, thoughts of death and/or suicide and possible physical symptoms.
Unfortunately there is no "cure" for depression, but one can gain recovery and live a happy and full life. With the tips in this article, one can begin to have some relief from the symptoms.
Try to regulate your sleep. Depression usually changes sleep patterns, either too much sleep or not enough. Study sleep hygiene tips and make sure you get the amount of sleep you need to function. If you're sleeping too much, set a bedtime and wake time and stick to it.
Step2
Take care of yourself. Make sure you're showering, eating and getting physical activity. Depression so often lowers motivation, even to do simple things like taking a shower. If you're appetite goes down, make sure you're eating enough to stay healthy, maybe adding a vitamin for good measure. If you're eating too much, try to regulate what you're eating and try not to eat out of emotion.
Step3
Get out and do something! Depression tends to lower motivation and deplete the pleasure in once pleasurable things. You must force yourself to get out of bed and get back into your routine, at your own pace. You may need to have a friend/supporter to help motivate you to do something. Remember, once you start to do something, chances are you'll build up momentum and continue doing it.
Step4
Try not to isolate. Keep in contact with friends; force yourself to call those who care about you. If you don't want to go out to meet friends and/or family, invite them over. Having people come over may motivate you do clean your home, and take care of your hygiene. If you have no supports, try finding a therapist or a depression support group.
Step5
Make yourself look at the positive things in life. Depression tends to create "tunnel vision", in which you only see the negative things that are happening. Chances are there are some positive things. Try writing down something that's positive, or that you're grateful for, everyday.
Step6
Make small, manageable goals everyday and reward yourself for them! Start small. Maybe you're first goal is getting out of bed for an hour one day. When you reach that goal, give yourself positive feedback or give yourself something tangible as a reward. Remember to start small and reward big! The more you do it, the more you'll have positive things to recognize.
Tips & Warnings
If you have thoughts of death and/or suicide, call someone immediately. You may need to call 911 to keep yourself safe.
If your depression persists for a long period, or you don't feel you can cope with it on your own, call your local mental health center or a therapist.
You may want to consider an antidepressant. You won't necessarily have to stay on it forever, but it can help to regulate your brain chemistry to get you out of the depression enough to make more steps.
I can't stress it enough, if you have thoughts of suicide, get help immediately!
If you have set backs, try not to give up completely. Depression is difficult to recover from. It may take a while, but keep on track and you can beat it!
on 2/23/2008
Everything you say is true. But when you're depressed you CAN'T!
I've been there. I'm still there.It started when I was a kid and just keeps going.
I've spent months unable to get out of bed. Had to watch my children take care of everything...the twins were 17 & my youngest was 10. That was 10 yrs ago.
I've been through it all and now there are bad days and worse days. For some there are no answers.
on 1/26/2008
Thanks for the information. It is a big suprize how much lack of sleep can affect you. Want to find out how much? Just get a good night of sleep and find out what a difference it makes.
on 4/3/2008
As I am sitting here reading this I am falling asleep. Sleeping is my way of avoiding everything. Don't pay bills,don't clean the house,don't do the laundry. Either cry or sleep. Those are my choices today. I am on medications. In fact I'm at the Highest amount of medication that my dr. feels comfortable giving me, EST (electric Shock)treatments are now suggested.I am scared of those treatmenst and the memory that it will take away .I am scared of depression. It can just creep up on me , and make me do nothing or have no interest in nothing. My Daughter is upset at me, because I am unable to do anything Depression really sucks Chronic Pain does also . They literally suck Your life away.
on 2/29/2008
PaulasPieces: you're absolutely right. Depression can be completely debilitating. There are steps that can be taken, such as enrolling in therapy to change your thinking that may contribute to the worst days. There are some good self help books/workbooks out there if you're not comfortable with a therapist. Also, medications can help to stabilize your brain chemistry to a point, but working on your thinking is an important part as well. Coming up with a proactive plan, for the days that are bad, to keep them from turning to the worst days. Maybe this is over simplification and hopefully I'm not invalidating your experience. If not helpful for you, these tips may be helpful for others.
Comments
PaulasPieces said
on 2/23/2008 Everything you say is true. But when you're depressed you CAN'T!
I've been there. I'm still there.It started when I was a kid and just keeps going.
I've spent months unable to get out of bed. Had to watch my children take care of everything...the twins were 17 & my youngest was 10. That was 10 yrs ago.
I've been through it all and now there are bad days and worse days. For some there are no answers.
grouch said
on 1/26/2008 Thanks for the information. It is a big suprize how much lack of sleep can affect you. Want to find out how much? Just get a good night of sleep and find out what a difference it makes.
desertSkys said
on 4/3/2008 As I am sitting here reading this I am falling asleep. Sleeping is my way of avoiding everything. Don't pay bills,don't clean the house,don't do the laundry. Either cry or sleep. Those are my choices today. I am on medications. In fact I'm at the Highest amount of medication that my dr. feels comfortable giving me, EST (electric Shock)treatments are now suggested.I am scared of those treatmenst and the memory that it will take away .I am scared of depression. It can just creep up on me , and make me do nothing or have no interest in nothing. My Daughter is upset at me, because I am unable to do anything Depression really sucks Chronic Pain does also . They literally suck Your life away.
Emjo said
on 2/29/2008 PaulasPieces: you're absolutely right. Depression can be completely debilitating. There are steps that can be taken, such as enrolling in therapy to change your thinking that may contribute to the worst days. There are some good self help books/workbooks out there if you're not comfortable with a therapist. Also, medications can help to stabilize your brain chemistry to a point, but working on your thinking is an important part as well. Coming up with a proactive plan, for the days that are bad, to keep them from turning to the worst days. Maybe this is over simplification and hopefully I'm not invalidating your experience. If not helpful for you, these tips may be helpful for others.