How to communicate with girls

Maintain eye contact when communicating.

Communication between the sexes is more complicated than we'd like it to be sometimes. Saying the wrong thing at the wrong moment, or just not saying anything at all, can develop into an unnecessary argument. Even though you may think you've mastered the art of communication, there's always room for improvement. It's important to be able to effectively communicate with girls to maintain harmony and understanding.

Things You'll Need

• A girl to talk to.
• Patience

Instructions

1. Listen to her. When a girl talks to you, she'll usually tell you if she wants your opinion on something. Realize that you can't always offer her suggestions or answers. Sometimes she only wants you to listen. You don't always have to agree with what she's saying, just listen and understand her point of view.

2. Tell her if you don't understand what she's talking about. It's easy to get frustrated when talking with a girl if you don't understand what she's saying since you may be hurt by something that wasn't mean to be offensive.

3. Let her know it's safe to talk about her feelings and that you want to help. If she feels anxious or worried about expressing her feelings to you, it may be because she feels uncomfortable or doesn't trust you. If she can't communicate with you without a fight occurring, she'll eventually become hurt or angry and not open up to you.

4. Express interest in what she has to say. Repeat some of what she says back to her to let her know you're listening. For example, if she says "At work, Lindsey got the promotion that I've been trying to get for years. I'm furious!" Respond by saying, "You worked really hard for that promotion. I'd be furious, too."

Tips & Warnings

• Girls are girls, and don't share the same feelings as you. So avoid talking about cars, sports, or other guy stuff. Focus on what she likes, even if it is shaving your legs. ;)

• Remember to relax when you're talking to a girl, especially one you like. You like her, that's normal, so don't freak out. That simple.

• NEVER go on a date with a girl, without talking to her father. This is a major problem, and if you do, the dad will probably cut off your relationship then and there.

• Like it or not, PMS is a huge part of girls, that's why their emotions seem to bounce all over the place. Be on the lookout to when to back off.

References

• Everyday Wisdom: Suggestions For Men on How to Better Communicate With Women
• Phobias Help: Teaching Men on How to Communicate With Women
• Understanding Relationships; How to Communicate With Women Effectively; Corey Wayne; July 2011