How to React if Your Spouse Cheats on You

By Christina Sponias

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Men consider their wives’ adultery as a matter of life and death and they care more for their position as the humiliated ones than for the love of their wives or families. This is because men follow the macho conception according to which a man is considered gravely disrespected when his wife has a sexual relationship with another man.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Things You’ll Need:

  • You only have to think about how to overcome this situation, without thinking about what your spouse did against you.
Step1
Men consider their wives’ adultery as a matter of life and death and they care more for their position as the humiliated ones than for the love of their wives or families. This is because men follow the macho conception according to which a man is considered gravely disrespected when his wife has a sexual relationship with another man. This is such a serious matter that he usually murders his enemy and/or his wife when he discovers the truth and is absolved in court because this is considered a matter that really puts any man out of control.

I’ve helped many people with different problems. If you have a psychological problem, it is because your life is sad and you have many other problems that not only provoke but also increase the psychological ones.

Divorce is very common and adultery is a daily happening in our society because it is governed by violence, immorality and hypocrisy.

In real life, things are not as we imagine. Often, the macho figure is not an option a man can have…

I helped a friend whose wife abandoned him and their 7-year-old son, and had another baby with another man. I helped another friend who was betrayed by his wife because he was working too hard and she had a lover. Then he got married to another woman and he loved her very much, but she committed suicide when their baby was only four months old.
Step2
I interpreted approximately one hundred dreams concerning their wives for them.

The unconscious that produces the dreams is like a private doctor and gives guidance, information, advices and comfort to everyone in the moments of pain and despair.

Both of them found relief from dream interpretation and learned very much. The first one abandoned the psychotherapy as soon as he overcame his problems and the other one was helped until he understood everything and became strong again, and continued his life with courage, wisdom and peace in his heart.

Of course, I’m not going to tell you their stories but only the description of their problems so that you can see how terrible life can be when a woman, especially a mother, betrays her husband and child.
Step3
However, women that betray their husbands are induced to do so by their anti-conscience when the objective reality allows it the opportunity to invade the conscience with negative suggestions.
Step4
The same happens when a man betrays his wife, but in this case, the woman has the position of a victim. She is not going to kill her husband and his lover, but feel betrayed and accept this condition.

I have also helped a friend whose husband had a lover and she learned it through a cheap detective…

These are examples of real lives and situations where treason completely destroys many lives. Everybody in these stories had children who already had several psychological problems due to the mistakes that their parents made, without thinking about them.
Step5
What to do if something as terrible happens to you? It could happen to anyone…

You only have to think about how to overcome this situation, without thinking about what your spouse did against you.

Whoever betrays someone else is dominated by the their anti-conscience; therefore, we shall not expect human behavior from them. They are wild monsters, without any human characteristics, but they pretend that they are still human beings.
Step6
This is a very tragic reality, but the discovery of the existence of a wild conscience explains many unexplained phenomena in human behavior. Now, we can prevent the irrational content from invading and destroying the conscience, before it starts its onslaught.

However, this miracle can be achieved only through dream interpretation using the scientific method of dream interpretation, discovered by Carl Jung and simplified by me, who continued his research in the unknown region of the human psyche.
Step7
I hope you are not in such a situation, but if you need help because your spouse has betrayed you, simply pay attention to your dreams and start taking notes everyday. Say to yourself when you sleep that the next morning, you will remember your dreams and you can be sure that you are will remember them, even if you never remember any of your dreams. If you write them down, you’ll have a report about your psychological world and what to do in order to be strong and wise and live happily.

Life is a difficult challenge, but everything here is a lesson.

You can be sure that the wise unconscious will never betray you and show you the whole truth about everything through your own dreams. You’ll always have a counsellor and a doctor at your disposition, showing you everything you need to learn and helping you find the best solutions.

Tips & Warnings

  • Pay attention to your dreams and start taking notes everyday.
  • If you write them down, you’ll have a report about your psychological world and what to do in order to be strong and wise and live happily.
  • In real life, things are not as we imagine. Often, the macho figure is not an option a man can have…
  • The woman has the position of a victim. She is not going to kill her husband and his lover, but feel betrayed and accept this condition.

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Article By: Christina Sponias

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