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How to Date Your Boss

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By erynashley
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It’s not the ideal situation, and most people will warn you against it, but sometimes you can be attracted to the exact person you shouldn’t be: your boss. This doesn’t have to be a dramatic, fated relationship. In fact, it can be healthy and functional, as long as you realize beforehand that special parameters have to be considered, and know the steps to take.

Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions
  1. Step 1

    Confirm your attraction by going on an informal first date, or grabbing lunch during the day. Working together provides a certain kind of chemistry; so before you both decide that you want to pursue a romantic relationship, ensure that you have the same inclination outside of the workplace.

  2. Step 2

    Examine your company’s policy on dating within the workplace. Most human resource departments will have a clause on this very subject, especially when it comes to superiors and subordinates. If your company prohibits this behavior, discuss this with your potential partner.

  3. Step 3

    Conduct your relationship outside of office hours, rather than on the job.

  4. Step 4

    Be professional at all times, and try to treat your partner the same as you treat the rest of your co-workers.

  5. Step 5

    Take time for yourself. Spending all your time with your partner, both at work and outside of work, can leave little room for necessary alone time.

  6. Step 6

    Keep your business issues with your boss separate from your personal issues with your partner, while in the office and at home.

Tips & Warnings
  • Be prepared for potential negative consequences, which can include termination.
  • Don’t engage in physical activity on the job. It may seem fun for the moment, but the fallout can be severe if you are get caught in the act.
  • Be careful if or when you get a promotion, as it can appear to be preferential treatment if your partner is also your direct supervisor.
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