Step1
A good lawyer is worth the money
Start with a good lawyer. Ideally, find one who already knows your business and also understands how to be tactful in helping both parties understand the value and importance of making mutually-beneficial decisions.
Step2
If you own a business and are about to get married, draft a pre-nuptial agreement before you tie the knot. Specify that the business is your individual property. Though state laws vary, it is possible that, even in many community property states, business assets brought to a marriage can be kept separate.
Step3
Keep in mind that a pre-nup is not all negative. Ideally, it protects both parties, as well as their children, especially in second marriages, or in the event of the death of either the wife or the husband. The idea is to de-emphasize protecting your property from divorce and to emphasize the importance of protecting everyone's interests in the event of death. This is key.
Step4
If you are already a couple, consider a "post-nuptial buy-sell agreement." This document should provide a formula for valuing the business in the event of a divorce or death, and specify who gets what. The problem here, of course, is that if you are contemplating such an agreement, there is already trouble with the marriage. Getting both parties to come to terms can be tough.
Step5
To assure that a multi-generation business stays within the family if a member divorces, consider a Family Limited Partnership arrangement. These versatile estate transfer tools can specify that business interests are not subject to division in divorce.
Step6
To reduce the destructive impact of divorce, keep clean records. Produce records voluntarily, and don't play games with retained earnings.
Step7
Try to compromise on how the business should be valued and on reasonable income for support. That way, both of you come out in better shape.
Step8
Make sure everyone's financial needs are addressed. Since most conflicts ultimately center around money, take steps to cool tempers. This can be done with trusts, as well as with life insurance. For instance, much of the sting of pre-nuptial agreement that keeps a $1 million business in your name can be reduced with a $1 million life insurance policy on your life, with your spouse named as owner and beneficiary.
Comments
JRIngrisano said
on 1/6/2008 Unfortunately, the courts do not recognize family lines of ownership. I know a fellow whose farm had been in the family for three generations. His wife left him and, under Wisconsin law, she got half the value of the farm.
grouch said
on 1/5/2008 I loved your angry face picture and I think that anything that has gone through generations of your family should be off limits when it comes to divorce.