How to Prepare Yourself for a Dinner Party

Even from childhood, you knew how awkward a dinner party could be. Since then, you have been forced over to neighbor's houses, your boss's mansion, and the apartment belonging to the quaint couple you met in AA, all in the name of eating. As torturous as dinner parties can be, there are a few ways to prepare yourself so that the event isn't a complete train wreck.

Things You'll Need

• nice shoes
• a blazer
• wine
• hors d'oeuvres

Instructions

1. Clean up. Before attending any gathering at someone else's house, regardless of the event, the most respectful thing you can do is dress up for the event. This includes showering, shaving, and putting on clothing appropriate for the occasion. If you are attending a BBQ, you probably won't need a sports coat, however, it's a good idea to still tuck in a polo just to show the host, "An effort was made here."

2. Bring a date. This is especially important if a boss has invited you over for dinner. People generally feel more at ease when they see you are normal enough to be liked, possibly even loved, by others. Furthermore, in our culture, we equate love with success, so bring someone you can stand holding hands with for a few hours.

3. Bring a bottle of wine or a starter. Never show up to a dinner party without something in your hands, because it is disrespectful. Even if the host has insisted that everything is taken care, she will still appreciate the gesture you have shown.

4. Put an MP3 player in your pocket, and run an ear-bud up your sleeve. Nothing is more soothing during a boring conversation or an awkward meal than a retreat to your own personal space. While you can't physically go anywhere, you'd be suprised how nice it is to have your own music available at any time. Just drop a fist under your chin, pretend to be interested, and listen to your favorite tunes.