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Step 1
Check for irregularity in their daily schedule. Is your significant other constantly breaking their normal schedule, returning home late with poor excuses? Do you frequently hear them on the phone with somebody of the opposite sex and a lame excuse that follows?
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Step 2
Randomly stop by their workplace for lunch. Most often affairs occur with a co-worker. Quite often you can surprise your significant other by showing up to take them to lunch. Gauge their surprise levels on that and watch for body language and eye contact between co-workers of the opposite sex.
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Step 3
Find out when their night out is and surprise them by being there with your friends. Another common place for people to cheat on their significant others is when out with their friends and when they are feeling confident. Surprise them at this social meeting place, you should be able to tell immediately if there is something going on or not.
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Step 4
Confront them. Once you have gathered enough evidence to convince yourself they are cheating or having an affair, confront them and find out for sure. Most people in a relationship will deny this at first, but after much confrontation many will admit it. If they do not admit it, and you are sure that they are, repeat the first three steps until resolution is found.







