Things You'll Need:
- A large mirror
- Some paper and pen
- Gym membership or exercise video
- Cologne/perfume with a subtle scent
- Ballroom dancing knowledge
- Confidence and creativity
- Books on manners (optional)
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Step 1
Stand in front of a large mirror and honestly assess your body type and overall fitness. Determine your trademark features and figure out how to enhance them through your wardrobe.
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Step 2
Write down your assessments on some paper. Then step in front of the same mirror and embrace your body. Learning to love your assets and hiding the weak spots will boost your confidence level to the nth degree.
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Step 3
If needed, shop around for the best wardrobe that "camouflages the bulges and accentuates all the curves, but most of all makes [one] feel comfortable," as the Ultimate-Cosmetics website suggests. Remember, too, to adjust colors and lines on clothing and shoes in accordance with your height. For example, if you are of a short stature, do not buy a blouse with horizontal lines as those same lines will make you look wider than usual. Purchase make-up and accessories that match those pieces of wardrobe as well.
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Step 4
Stay fit. Partake in a gym membership or simply pop in an exercise video and get moving. Well-toned people often bring out impressions that they take good care of themselves.
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Step 5
Maintain good hygiene daily. Shower everyday and be sure to check if the breath smells fresh. Indecent fragrances are one of the major factors for an automatic turn-off.
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Step 6
Practice your manners. People, especially members of the opposite sex, often judge others by the way they treat them. For example, men are considered gentlemen if they take the time to open the doors or pull out chairs for their respective dates. Persons possessing little to no signs of courtesy often risk being revealed as uneducated and unruly. This will definitely leave a bad first impression!
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Step 7
Master some ballroom dance moves. Any lady would melt in knowing that a certain someone knows how to maneuver their bodies and ultimately, sweep them off their feet. There seems to be a sense of sensuality when it comes to the tango or the swing. Another great result of knowing how to dance: confidence, confidence, confidence. The way people carry themselves will determine whether they are truly comfortable in their own skin. In fact, the better they carry themselves, the more sex appeal they exude!
