How to Meet Men

By eHow Relationships & Family Editor

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It's so easy for some...but the rest of us could use some help. Follow these steps and you are sure to meet men.

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Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

Fresh-cut Flowers
Boxes Of Chocolates
Concert Tickets
Dinner Reservations
Movie Tickets
Basketballs
Bike Helmets
Mountain Bikes

Step1

Shoot pool at the local pool hall - this is especially useful if you have any skill.

Step2

Watch sporting events at a sports bar with some friends. Your friends might talk to his friends...then he will talk to you.

Step3

Hang out at a popular surf beach - but try to at least look like you are doing something other than trolling for surfers.

Step4

Join a local sports league - every Tuesday night will turn into a "buffet des hommes."

Step5

Find out if your local bike shop has a biking group you can join. Or, go to a popular bike trail and hang out at the popular resting spots - but don't linger too long.

Step6

Do your laundry at the laundromat. Check his laundry basket to make sure he's single.

Step7

Grocery shop late at night or late Saturday morning. Check out his eating habits by the contents of his cart.

Step8

Walk your dog. If you don't have a dog, walk your neighbor's dog.

Step9

Join a local community garden.

Tips & Warnings

Do the things you love to do and you'll meet guys who have similar interests.
A friendly smile is a great ice breaker.
If you have done the above and still cannot meet men, you should ask yourself if there are bigger issues at hand - or consider moving to a new town where there are more men.

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Anonymous said

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on 11/22/2005 Take cooking classes through a local college, or if you have the money, try gourmet classes at a culinary school. Places like Williams Sonoma offer great cooking classes as well. Another tip, take Home Depot classes. Home Depot is a great place to meet men, and if you take a few classes, you'll learn a few handy skills.

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on 11/22/2005 act confident even if you're not. do not share any of your insecurities with a man in the beginning- that you're thighs are too big or anything. This is a turn-off! Believe you are god's gift to men, and he will think so too.

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on 11/22/2005 change you name to Jenny
Jennys always get the guys

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on 11/22/2005 Join a wine-tasting class to learn about all different kinds of wine. The men are single, like doing something, and have sophisticated interests. I swear, it's just all these interesting guys - all you have to do is pick!

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on 11/22/2005 The best way to meet a guy is just to go up to him and start talking about anything. Most guys have responses for most conversation. You can be sure he will be impressed. Remember, most girls don't approach guys, so to him it's flattering!

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