How to Accept a Gay Sibling
Having a gay sibling has become a commonality, but there are still those who flinch at the thought. Differences in people and their preferences are as normal and night and day, but for those of you who are unsure how to handle the call from your sibling when he says, "I want to tell you I'm gay," here are some steps to help you along.
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Know he is still your brother. Yes, he's gay, but nothing between you has changed. Surely he doesn't ask what goes on in your bedroom, so remember what he does in his bedroom is his business.
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Reassure him you love him. It is imperative you are still there for him, still his sister and you still love him the same as before he told you he is gay.
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Listen to what he has to say and try to understand. Coming out of the closet is very trying for people. They run into hypocritical behavior and much worse. Allow your sibling to vent.
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If you feel uncomfortable or unsure then discuss your feelings with her. She will be more than happy to talk to you about it because it is important to her that you understand and accept her choice.
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When you hear someone criticizing gays either say nothing or defend their right to choice. Please do it without being arrogant or over zealous.
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Remember your sibling is your sister first and foremost. The rest is secondary and as long as you maintain your love for her all will work out fine.
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Do not judge him for his choices. His decisions are between him and a higher power. He didn't reveal his feelings for you to judge.
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Love him as you always have and tell him that you do.
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When she brings her partner to family gatherings treat her as you would anyone else. After all, they are people just like you.
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