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Step 1
Begin as you would any other sexual encounter by setting the scene. Use candles, low lights and special music to help get you both in the mood.
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Step 2
Say things to her. If she likes you to "talk dirty," open up your vocabulary and give her all the auditory images she can handle. Be aware of the kind of language she would like to hear; it may be that she prefers romantic words. If so, indulge. Speak low, close to her ear so that she can feel your hot breath. Tell her that you love her, and that you want her to be excited, that you want her to experience a powerful orgasm.
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Step 3
Touch her ear with your tongue and your fingers. The tongue, as a tool for stimulation, has great power. Run the tip of your tongue along the outer edge of her ear, then around, then inside. Check your rate of speed--slow down, then speed up while listening to her breathing. By listening carefully, you can measure her level of excitement, while determining which movements around her ears produce the most excitement for her. If you use your fingers, touch her lightly, around the ear, lightly on the ear lobe, and so on. Take full advantage of the nerve endings all over her skin.
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Step 4
Breathe hotly into her ear. Low, slow and luxurious, if you can manage it, is the way to powerful ear stimulation. Don't blow hard; small, slow breaths will get her excited. Keep talking. Tell her what you want to do with her. Now is the time to be graphic.
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Step 5
Touch her where necessary when she asks. Unless you're both completely immersed in the moment, you may only bring her half-way to climax through ear stimulation alone. For a complete orgasmic experience, you touch and explore her obvious erogenous zones. Be open to the all possibilities.
