How to Let a Crush Know You Are Interested on Valentine's Day

By eHow Holidays & Celebrations Editor

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It's the language of "like." Letting a crush know you're interested in her can be especially significant when Valentine's Day rolls around. Winning over a crush means more than just getting her attention. You have to let her know you are deeply interested in her as a person.

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Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Things You’ll Need:

Bouquet of flowers
Card or note
Poem

Step1

Say "hello" for starters. Building rapport with your crush will let him see what kind of person you are.

Step2

Research. Find out what she likes from her friends. Then when you meet you can talk about similar interests. Let your crush tell you about a pursuit she is currently engaged in, and show genuine interest. Your crush will appreciate your willingness to listen.

Step3

Send flowers to your crush. Write a romantic note or love letter. A Valentine's Day card or note is the perfect opportunity to show you are interested. A poem may add a nice touch.

Step4

Choose an activity that reflects your crush's interests or pursuits, and prepare a possible date idea that you will later introduce when you ask her out.

Step5

Ask your crush out on a Valentine's Day date. The impact of all your other communication up to this point may help seal the deal.

Tips & Warnings

The main thing to remember about having a crush is to be attentive. Show your crush you like him by showing more attention to his appearance or smile, for example.
Whether it's flowers, a gift box or a note, use the color of red, which represents romantic love and passion.
For the more timid, try sending a secret note to your crush and sign it anonymously. This will be a good way to gauge the reaction and proceed from there. It will also help you avoid the direct blow of a rejection.
Letting your crush know you are interested may be more difficult if you are not friends with her. A friendly relationship, on the other hand, is a good foundation on which to build more intimacy.
A crush is just that--a crush. Try not to confuse this feeling with deeper sentiments like love or commitment. True love takes time and continued interaction to develop.
If you're shooting for a Valentine's Day date, set the groundwork several days in advance.