How to Let a Crush Know You Are Interested on Valentine's Day
It's the language of "like." Letting a crush know you're interested in her can be especially significant when Valentine's Day rolls around. Winning over a crush means more than just getting her attention. You have to let her know you are deeply interested in her as a person.
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Instructions
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Say "hello" for starters. Building rapport with your crush will let him see what kind of person you are.
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Research. Find out what she likes from her friends. Then when you meet you can talk about similar interests. Let your crush tell you about a pursuit she is currently engaged in, and show genuine interest. Your crush will appreciate your willingness to listen.
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Send flowers to your crush. Write a romantic note or love letter. A Valentine's Day card or note is the perfect opportunity to show you are interested. A poem may add a nice touch.
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Choose an activity that reflects your crush's interests or pursuits, and prepare a possible date idea that you will later introduce when you ask her out.
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Ask your crush out on a Valentine's Day date. The impact of all your other communication up to this point may help seal the deal.
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Tips & Warnings
The main thing to remember about having a crush is to be attentive. Show your crush you like him by showing more attention to his appearance or smile, for example.
Whether it's flowers, a gift box or a note, use the color of red, which represents romantic love and passion.
For the more timid, try sending a secret note to your crush and sign it anonymously. This will be a good way to gauge the reaction and proceed from there. It will also help you avoid the direct blow of a rejection.
Letting your crush know you are interested may be more difficult if you are not friends with her. A friendly relationship, on the other hand, is a good foundation on which to build more intimacy.
A crush is just that--a crush. Try not to confuse this feeling with deeper sentiments like love or commitment. True love takes time and continued interaction to develop.
If you're shooting for a Valentine's Day date, set the groundwork several days in advance.
