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How to ask a girl to dance at a club.

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ask a girl to dance at a club.
ask a girl to dance at a club.

Many guys are shy when it comes to asking girls to dance at a club. But, with a few steps, you'll be on your way to dancing with the most beautiful girl in the club.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Some courage.
  • Friend(s) to go with you.
  • Entry into a club.
  • A little alcohol couldn't hurt.
  • Breath mints.
  1. Step 1

    The first thing to do while at a club is to look for girls that are already dancing. This will at the very least let you know that she wants to dance.

  2. Step 2

    If you see that the girl you want to dance with has friends dancing with her, make sure you have the same number of friends with you! If not, she may say no because she doesn't want to leave her friends dancing by themselves.

    Or........

  3. Step 3

    You can look for a group of three or more girls. The girl you ask might say yes because her friends can dance with each other.

  4. Step 4

    Remember that the more friends you take with you, the better. One of your friends might ask a certain girl to dance, which may then influence her friends to say yes because they don't want to dance alone or leave you alone.

  5. Step 5

    In addition, taking more of your friends might also be helpful because they may be willing to "take one for the team". This refers to one of your friends dancing with a girl you find to be unattractive in order for you to be able to dance with her friend.

Tips & Warnings
  • I have found that a little alcohol has given some of my friends a little more courage to ask girls to dance.
  • Remember to always be respectful. Ask politely and with a smile.
  • Also remember to use a mint or gum before hitting the dance floor.
  • If she says no, remember that there are way more girls out there to ask!
  • Never grab a girl before asking her to dance.
  • Never automatically start dancing with a girl-all my female friends have told me this is annoying and a turn-off.

Comments  

huntor said

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on 8/7/2008 This is probably the worst advice anyone could EVER give a guy

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