How to Behave in a Men's Only Bath House

For gay men, the bath house is a place to congregate and relax. And of course it's also the spot to have sex. But just because it might seem like some kind of unbridled pleasure palace doesn't mean there aren't unspoken rules of etiquette. Learn how to behave appropriately in a bath house so that you and other patrons can have the most enjoyable time possible.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You’ll Need:

• A bath house
• A towel
• Condoms
• Respect for others

1. Upon entering the bath house, you will likely be issued a towel. Be sure to wear this throughout the complex. It is considered rude to walk around public areas fully nude.
2. You will likely encounter the locker room soon after entering the facility. Use a locker to store your belongings. Never fool around with men in the locker room. The locker area is for changing only.
3. While in public areas such as hallways and lounges, do not engage in sexual acts. Most bath houses will ask you to leave if you do.
4. When exploring the facility, do not open the door to a private room unless it is yours. Doing so is considered extremely invasive.
5. If you see someone that you find attractive, do not just reach out and grope them. Approach them. If they signal either through gesture or speech that they are interested, proceed. Otherwise walk away.
6. In semi-public areas that do allow sex, do not intrude on couples or groups that are engaging in sex unless invited.
7. When engaging in sex, always use protection. Never try to coax or force anyone to engage in a sexual act without the use of protection.
8. Be sure to utilize the showers regularly, especially after sexual contact.

Tips & Warnings

• Always use protection when engaging in sexual acts.