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Step 1
Come out as a heterosexual ally. Let people know that you support gay rights and why. Coming out as an ally is a whole lot easier than coming out as a homosexual, so as a heterosexual ally, you have the opportunity to make LGBT causes visible with relative ease.
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Step 2
Stand up to homophobia. When you hear a homophobic comment, express your disgust openly. If a gay person you know is discriminated against or harassed and you have the ability to intervene, do so.
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Step 3
Treat lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered people with the same respect and kindness that you treat straight people. Share milestones in their lives such as marriages and adoptions just as you would for your straight friends.
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Step 4
Avoid "heteronormativity," or the assumption that everyone is straight unless you're told otherwise. For example, if you strike up a conversation with a woman at a party and she's wearing a ring, don't automatically ask her about her husband.
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Step 5
Get involved politically as an ally. Support gay friendly candidates and write letters to politicians in support of LGBT causes. Consider joining an organization such as Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG). Get involved in campaigns for gay friendly ballot initiatives and similar legislation.
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Step 6
Get involved in your workplace and your local community as an ally. For example, if your workplace does not offer domestic partner benefits, start or sign a petition. Support gay friendly local businesses and boycott businesses that are not. Attend local gay pride parades.
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Step 7
Teach your children that homosexuality is as normal as heterosexuality.
