How to Be a Good Parent

We all want to be the best possible parents for our children, yet many times that is easier said than done. Being a good parent requires discipline on the part of the parent as well as the child. Good parents work hard at making sure they are parenting their children in a way that promotes high self esteem and self discipline. Using parenting methods that promote high self esteem and self discipline is a gift all parents can and should be willing to do for their children.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Make expectations clear and concise. Many times parents assume their children know what is expected of them when in fact the parent has never actually made his expectations clear.

2. Reward good behavior. It is easy to fall into the habit of only acknowledging undesirable behavior but it is extremely important to catch your child being good. This will do wonders to boost your child's self esteem and in turn make her want to please you more.

3. Utilize time out. Time out is wonderful for both the parent and the child. Many times in order to be an effective parent you need time to reflect on the situation as much as the child does. The general rule is to have your child stay in time out for the amount minutes equal to her age, thus a 3 year old would stay in time out for 3 minutes.

4. Take away privileges. Sometimes time out is simply not enough to help modify undesirable behavior but taking away a favorite video game for talking back may very well result in much more polite child.

5. Recognize that each child is different. Each child has a different personality so discipline should be modified to fit the needs of each individual child. Good parenting is not a one size fits all deal, what may work wonderfully with your first born may not work at all with his little sister.

Tips & Warnings

• Never spank your child.
• Never lash out at your child. If you are extremely angry, step away from the situation until you calm down, then address the problem.