How to Get Adults to Smile for Photos

We all have that one family member or friend that refuses to smile for photos. Whether it be your great aunt or a good friend, a frown can ruin a picture faster than bad lighting. Don't worry though, there's a way to turn that frown upside down without making a scene, and here's how.

Difficulty:

Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. Consider your subject. If you're worrying about getting someone to smile in a large family photo don't single them out, just make a point of reaching out to that person. If you are taking a picture of a single person, ask them about something that would make them happy. If you know anything about the person try to stay near safe subjects as opposed to any subjects that would cause extra stress.

2. Make them laugh. Humor is always a good way to begin especially if you put on a show for the whole crowd. The best way to get the guy in the back with a permanent frown on his face is to appeal to his humor, and broaden your appeal. Make everyone laugh by making fun of yourself, doing something silly in front of them, or catching them off guard. The secret of comedy is to do something unexpected that is harmless but unforeseen.

3. Try to make them mirror you. Smile. Smile a lot and look at them with compassion and kindness. Even if they initially respond by glaring at you, begin by keeping the camera with your and keep yourself open to engaging them. Maintain the idea that smiles are infectious and if you have someone who won't do it try and get the ball rolling by exhibiting a smile.

4. Take the pressure off. Some people will react when a camera is pointed at them by tensing up. If you have one of these people and they try and smile it might look strained. Treat the camera like a piece of furniture, but continue to keep it close. Sometimes a camera can cause anxiety to adults because they feel unsure about how they look. Be understanding and try to relate to them as a person instead of a subject.

5. Treat it like ripping off a band-aid. While you have them distracted or least expecting the picture, snap it. As long as they are smiling and looking your way you will have a beautiful photo that they didn't even expect. Take multiple pictures if you are working on the fly like this because facial expressions can change in an instant and you don't want to miss the moment they let that smile shine through.