How to Find Resources for Birth Mothers

Birth mothers face a tough decision when thinking about giving their babies up for adoption. During this difficult time, having plenty of resources available for the birth mother is vital to the success of the pregnancy and subsequent adoption. Birth mothers need financial support, health care, transportation and the care of friends and family.

Instructions

1. Contact your State Health Department for information on adoption and help that is available for birth mothers. Set up a meeting with someone in the adoption department to get valuable information on free state programs available to pregnant women.

2. Talk to your adoption counselor about what options you have with regards to receiving support from the adoptive family.

3. Consult a Crisis Pregnancy Center in your area for help with doctor visits, clothing, food, transportation and counseling during your pregnancy.

4. Get connected with a birth mother support group. These groups are great resources for birth mothers who don't have family or friends nearby.

5. Understand the terms of your adoption and your rights as a birth mother by talking to your attorney or adoption counselor. The amount of financial or other services you receive will depend largely on the arrangements made with the adoptive parents.

6. Continue in your support group after your baby has been adopted and seek counseling if necessary. Adoption is a loving yet difficult decision and you may need someone to talk to.

7. Visit adoptionservices.org for a full listing of support services for birth mothers and contact information in your area.