How to Approach an Attractive Woman
Approaching an attractive woman can be nerve racking for most men. It's understandable. You're putting yourself out there for possible rejection. It's all about how you handle yourself that will determine your success. Read on to learn how to approach an attractive woman.
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Be direct. Men often want to seem slick and fly beneath the radar. But a woman knows when you're trying to pick her up. The best bet is to be up front with her.
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Ask for her phone number or email. Tell her you'd like the chance to talk to you more when you have time.
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Have total confidence in yourself. It resonates with the woman if you're sure of yourself. Give her a pen and paper to write down her phone number. This shows you're sure that she'll give it to you.
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Show your spontaneity without seeming overly excited. It sounds funny, but practice being spontaneous. You want to appear smooth and confident when you "run" into her.
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Be sincere by responding to her actions and confidence and adjusting your conversation. Listen to her but don't kiss her butt. There's a difference between being sincere and acting unworthy of her attention. Let her smile at you first.
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Make it a point to approach her as if you didn't go out of your way. If it looks like you made an effort to speak to her, you'll seem desperate. Know that effort is not the same as courage. You can run yourself ragged to "run" into her as long as you don't let her see you do it.
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Tips & Warnings
Stand up straight. Good posture shows you're a winner.
Don't shower the attractive woman with compliments. It'll make you look as if you're unworthy.
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HowToDating
Oct 25, 2008
"There's one aspect of this whole article you failed to address...What if you're an ultra-geek like me?! ;-) " The article is "how to de-geekify" yourself lol. Its about HOW to get social skills. A geek is nothing more than a set of skills, and lack of others (more technical than social skills)... v.s. a jock who's the opposite. There was NO person i've ever known who was a bigger geek than I was. If I could do it, anyone can. Its called social skills, not "social talent" or "social genetics". Its all learnable. -
Thims
Oct 25, 2008
There's one aspect of this whole article you failed to address...What if you're an ultra-geek like me?! ;-) Good information.
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sunshowers
Dec 30, 2007
Remember that there's a huge difference between coming across as confident, and seeming cocky. Cockiness always stems from insecurity, which is never attractive. Personally, there is nothing sexier than quiet confidence. ;)
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sunshowers
Dec 30, 2007
There's a huge difference between coming off confident and seeming cocky. Cockiness always stems from insecurity, which is never attractive. Personally, there's nothing sexier than quiet confidence. :)
