How to Justify a Tattoo to a Parent

Getting a tattoo can be a fun experience, but the experience can be dampened if you need to explain yourself to parents. Parents may feel that you are degrading your body and demand that you refrain from getting inked. If you face this situation, here are some ways to justify a tattoo to a parent.

Instructions

1. Let them know that you know where they are coming from. It is not going to help your case if you get mad and tell them where to go. Tell them that you are taking their concerns seriously.

2. Tell them that you'll take some time to think about it. The main problem that your parents are likely to have is that you are getting the tattoo on a whim. Allow some time to pass and broach the discussion again.

3. Give them the reason why you want the tattoo. You should point out the meaning of the tattoo that you wish to get and the reason that it is important that you get it put on your body.

4. Remind them of when they were young. Point out how they may have gotten a tattoo at the same age that you are at now.

5. Bring them to the tattoo parlor if they are willing. Your parents may be hesitant due to an idea that tattoo parlors are gross and dirty places. If you show them the sterile environment, they are likely to feel better about the tattoo.

Tips & Warnings

• You should find out the age restrictions regarding tattoos for your state. Minors are typically not allowed to get a tattoo without parental consent.

• If your parents continue to say no, then leave the issue alone. You may never justify the tattoo to them and will simply have to wait until you are older to get one.