How to Have Wild Phone Sex

Phone sex is a way for two people who can't be together or who aren't ready for a physical relationship to release sexual energy. Phone sex provides intimacy without physical contact. Phone sex can be wild or tame depending on the mood of the participants. Amp up your phone sex sessions with role-playing, toys and even three-way phone calls.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Erotic toys

1. Time your phone sex session when both of you are free from distractions. Nothing keeps phone sex from getting wild like roommates barging in or your partner's dogs barking in the background.

2. Talk extremely dirty. Forget all those technical anatomy terms and talk like you're auditioning for your adult movie debut.

3. Fantasize or role-play with your partner. Pretend you're a celebrity, nurse, French maid, nun, priest or doctor. Tell in detail what you want done to you or what you're doing to them.

4. Make the phone sex session a group thing. Invite a friend who is interested in experiencing phone sex into your conversation. Having a threesome over the phone lets you experience something you may never do in the bedroom.

5. Have a few erotic toys on hand when performing phone sex. Let your partner tell you how they want you to use them or tell them exactly how you're using them on yourself.

6. Get loud. Phone sex can't be wild if you're afraid of making noise. Moan, scream and talk just loud enough that the neighbors might hear.

Tips & Warnings

• A hands free phone works the best with phone sex. If you're performing phone sex frequently, investing in one can increase the pleasure you get from phone sex.
• If you lack a partner for wild phone sex, contact a phone sex service and get connected with an experienced phone sex worker.

Resources

• Find phone sex ideas at Betty Dodson.