How to Behave During a Civil Trial

During a civil trial, it is of the utmost importance that you behave in a manner that shows respect for the institution of the court system and its officials. Beyond observing proper dressing and grooming habits, there are a few elements of etiquette you'll want to observe to make a positive impression on the judge.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

1. Learn the proper respectful titles of court officials. You should always address the judge as "Your Honor" and the bailiffs as "Mr. Bailiff" (or "Ms. Bailiff). Also, keep in mind that you should only address the judge if she addresses you first.
2. Avoid carrying loose coins or jewelry items that jangle when you walk. It's also recommended that you avoid wearing any unnecessary jewelry, limiting such items to practical pieces such as a watch or a wedding ring. Don't come into court wearing loud colors, and remember that black has a strong subliminal affect on people.
3. Keep your hands folded in your lap at all times, unless you are using them to point something out to the court (when asked to do so). You should also try not to cross your arms or legs or slouch, both at your table and when you take the stand.
4. Never behave in a manner that implies you're cocky, disinterested, disrespectful, ill mannered or impatient. Even though judges and juries are supposed to take nothing but the evidence into account in your civil case, the truth is that there's no way to avoid the impact a first impression makes.
5. Address the jury only when you're on the stand delivering testimony. Never interact with jury members outside the trial (such as during recess) or at any other time during the civil trial. It is considered improper.
6. Do not engage in conversations with any members of the audience or your defense team while testimony is being delivered or while proceedings are underway. This can give an impression of secrecy and sneakiness to the judge or jury, which can, in turn, negatively impact the way you are perceived.
7. Treat the opposing lawyer with the same courtesy you show your own. Don't be defensive and short with the opposing lawyer; stay polite and forthcoming.

Tips & Warnings

• You can be charged with contempt of court if you fail to behave properly in the face of repeated warnings. Contempt of court charges can carry significant fines as well as prison time.