How to Behave on a Hot Date

Of all the things you want to do right on a hot date, the most important ones to remember are to have fun and know how to behave. If both people are having fun, there's a good chance you'll get a second date. Put your best foot forward and have a great time on your hot date.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

1. Be punctual. Don't make your date wait. Until you get to know a person, you won't know for sure if he values being "fashionably late."
2. Compliment your date on her appearance. Behave appropriately with tasteful comments like, "I really like your necklace" or "that hairstyle looks beautiful on you."
3. Show interest in the conversation and what your date is talking about. Lean in toward your date, nod your head occasionally and make frequent eye contact (without staring).
4. Respect the other person's boundaries. Given the situation, it may seem reasonable to attempt more physical contact or to push for a French kiss, but do not persist if your attempt is not reciprocated.
5. Treat your hot date as something of an interview. You're there not only to have a good time, but you want to get to know the person more, what his personality is like and whether you see yourself going on future dates with him.
6. Thank the person for the date. Regardless of how you feel about the person at the end of the date, it is always a good habit to be polite.
7. Be honest and tell your date if you're not interested in future dates. It may be tempting to say, "I'll call you later," but telling a white lie will send the wrong message and may create awkward and embarrassing moments in the future.

Tips & Warnings

• Many people are uncertain as to who should pay the bill at the end of the date. These days, one idea is that whoever extended the invitation pays for the date. Other people believe that the woman should offer to split the bill with the man. More traditional people may assume that the man always pays. Know what your beliefs are, and avoid fussing excessively with your date over the bill.
• If your date is somehow making you feel uncomfortable or uneasy, you have the right to end the date. Try telling her that you just don't see a love connection and leave. Use an excuse, such as having an urgent meeting, only when you feel you aren't safe being direct.

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