How to Know if Your Family Lawyer is Doing His Job

Picking a lawyer can be difficult. Especially when you are trusting them with issues concerning your family.

Instructions

Difficulty: Moderate

Things You’ll Need:

• common sense

How to Know If Your Family Lawyer is Doing His Job

1. Before you choose a family lawyer, do your homework. Most attorneys will give you a free consultation. If you don't feel comfortable during the interview or you don't feel you can hold the attorney's undivided attention, don't use them. Find someone who will listen to you. Check with your state bar association to see if they are in good standing.
2. Make sure that after you have retained your attorney, you are completely honest with them about your case. If you keep something from them, and it is found out later, it can undermine your case. Ask them if they have a problem with you calling their office and checking on the status of your case. If they do, skip them. It's your right to know what is happening in regards to your family. Most attorneys will respect that and many will speak with you directly if they are available. Remember, that they have other clients and don't monopolize their time.
3. Keep your lawyer apprised of any changes or documentation that you receive. They can only do a good job if they are kept up to speed. Ask that they do the same. If something changes and they are notified, ask them to have someone from their office let you know. A good lawyer will be more than happy to keep you up to speed.
4. Make sure that your attorney notifies you of any changes in court dates, depositions, hearings, etc. Ask for notices of any filings that they make on your behalf.
5. Learn the process. Try and stay informed at every step of the process. Write dates down that you need to be aware of such as deadlines and court appointments. If something changes or is out of the ordinary, contact your attorney. If they work alone or have a small office staff, something may have been overlooked. Be an active part of your case.
   The more dedicated you are, the more dedicated they will be.

Tips & Warnings

• Don't harrass your attorney. Try to call once a week or so, or if you have questions. Otherwise, let them do their work.
• Do not lie to your attorney.
• Do not omit information.
• Be completely honest.